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Four tiers, each one optional. Start with the short screener; open the deeper tiers only if the first one suggests there is something to look at, or if you simply want to. Answers save as you go and you can stop anywhere.
The screener gates nothing. Every tier is reachable at any time — a gate that locked you out on a score this arbitrary would be pretending the score means something.
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By dimension
Ordered by how much you reported, most first — that is an ordering of your answers, not of what matters. Each bar is the proportion of the maximum for the items actually answered. A dimension with nothing answered sorts to the bottom and is named, not scored: absent is not zero.
What to do with this
Accommodations, environment changes and wording. Each card ends with an honest note on how well supported it actually is, because “widely recommended” and “tested” are not the same claim and this page will not blur them.
What is happening: several separate problems stacked on one deadline — low morning activation, no felt sense of elapsed time, tactile irritation from clothing, and a multi-step sequence held in a working memory that is still offline.
- Choose and lay out clothes the night before. Tags off, seams checked, fragrance-free wash.
- Put a visual countdown where it is seen — an analogue timer that shows time shrinking, not a clock face that needs arithmetic.
- Music or a podcast before any demand is made. Activation first, instructions second.
- One instruction at a time, or a written list in the order it happens.
Evidence: visual schedules and reduced verbal demands are standard practice in occupational therapy and special education. The clothing changes are accommodation, not treatment — they help because the irritation is real, not because they change anything underlying.
What is happening: texture aversion narrowing what is edible, other people's eating sounds triggering a disproportionate reaction, and sitting still costing more than the meal is worth.
- Serve components separately on a divided plate, so nothing touches anything unexpected.
- Filtered earplugs at the table reduce the trigger without cutting off conversation.
- A wobble cushion or a resistance band across the chair legs gives the movement the body is asking for.
- Let the person choose what goes on their plate. Pressure at the table reliably makes food range narrower, not wider.
Evidence: misophonia now has a published consensus definition (Swedo et al., 2022), which is recent — treatment evidence is still thin. Earplugs are symptom relief. Some clinicians caution that constant ear occlusion can increase sound sensitivity over time, so use them for the hard settings rather than all day.
What is happening: the size of the task is the obstacle, not its difficulty. Nothing begins until the deadline supplies the urgency that interest did not.
- Body doubling. Someone else works quietly nearby on their own thing. No supervision, no checking.
- Shrink the commitment, not the task. Agree to two minutes with genuine permission to stop. Starting is the expensive part.
- Cover the page. A blank sheet over everything except the current question removes most of what makes a worksheet look impossible.
- Write the first sentence together. Then leave.
Evidence: body doubling is widely used and widely reported to help, and has very little formal study behind it — treat it as promising practice, not an established intervention. Breaking work into small units and reducing visual load are long-standing classroom accommodations.
What is happening: unfairness landing much harder than the situation seems to warrant, and factual, unsoftened statements being heard as hostility when none was meant.
- Write the household rules down where everyone can see them. Most of the outrage is about inconsistency, not about the rule.
- Say the intention out loud before the observation. The subtext other people supply is rarely the one that was meant.
- Revisit the disagreement later, not during it.
Evidence: framed by the double empathy problem (Milton, 2012), which holds that the misunderstanding runs in both directions rather than being a deficit on one side. Crompton et al. (2020) found information passes as effectively between autistic people as between non-autistic people, and degrades in mixed pairs — which is what a two-way mismatch predicts and a one-way deficit does not.
What is happening: accumulated input has exceeded what can be processed, and the response is involuntary. It is not a tantrum; a tantrum has an audience and a goal, and this has neither. Speech is often the first thing to go.
- Stop asking questions. “What's wrong?” adds load at the exact moment there is none spare.
- Cut the input. Overhead lights off, sound off, no touch unless it is asked for.
- Offer choices that can be answered by pointing.
- Debrief later, once recovered — and only if it helps. Reviewing it immediately usually restarts it.
Evidence: this is established practice from autistic self-advocates and clinicians, and it is descriptive — people report losing access to speech under acute overload. The popular explanation that a specific language region “goes offline” is not something imaging has shown, so it is left out here. The advice does not depend on the mechanism.
What is happening: correction registering as rejection, and rejection producing a physical reaction — then either defensiveness or withdrawal, depending on the person.
- Establish the relationship before the correction, and mean it. Not a compliment sandwich; a real one.
- Be specific and bounded. “This paragraph” is survivable in a way that “your writing” is not.
- Leave the reaction alone until the physiology has settled. Analysing it while it is happening extends it.
Evidence and honesty: rejection sensitive dysphoria is a clinical-community term (popularised by William Dodson in ADHD writing). It is not in the DSM-5-TR, has no validated measure, and has essentially no peer-reviewed literature of its own. What does have a research base is rejection sensitivity as a personality construct (Downey & Feldman, 1996) and emotional dysregulation in ADHD, which is well documented. The experience people describe is real; the label is a description, not a diagnosis.
What is happening: a sleep phase that genuinely runs late, meeting a schedule that does not, plus the quietest hour of the day being the first chance the brain has had to review everything.
- Get the same wake time every day, weekends included, and bright light shortly after waking. This moves the clock; a fixed bedtime alone does not.
- Keep a notepad by the bed. Writing the open loop down ends the rehearsing better than deciding to stop.
- Steady low-frequency sound masks the sudden noises that restart the process.
- Screens are worth moving earlier mainly because of what is on them, not only the light.
Evidence: fixed wake time plus morning light is the standard behavioral approach to a delayed sleep phase and is well supported. If snoring, witnessed pauses in breathing, or heavy daytime sleepiness are present, ask a doctor about sleep apnoea before attributing any of this to neurotype.
What is happening: the demand itself, not the task, is what triggers the refusal. The reliable tell is that it happens for enjoyable activities too, the moment they become expected.
- Be alongside rather than in front. Do the thing near them; do not instruct them to do it.
- Offer choices that are real. A fake choice is detected instantly and costs trust.
- Describe rather than direct — see the next tab, which is entirely about this.
- Lower the total number of demands in a day. Which ones matter is a strategic decision, not a discipline failure.
Evidence and honesty: PDA is contested. Newson and colleagues (2003) described it as a distinct profile; Green and colleagues (2018) argued the features are real but do not hold together as a separate syndrome. It is not a diagnosis in the DSM-5-TR or the ICD-11, though it is recognized descriptively in UK practice. The strategies help many families regardless of how the debate resolves — which is the honest reason to offer them.
Swapping an instruction for an observation. The point is to leave the other person somewhere to move to, instead of a demand to comply with or resist.
| Instead of | Try | Why it lands differently |
|---|---|---|
| “Put your shoes on right now!” | “Shoes are by the door for when we head to the car.” | States a fact instead of issuing a demand. Nothing to push back against. |
| “Stop the game and come to dinner!” | “Dinner's on the table in five. Find a save point.” | Respects that leaving an absorbing task mid-way has a real cost, and gives time to pay it. |
| “Do your homework before TV.” | “I wonder which one of those is the quickest to get out of the way.” | Turns it into a question they answer rather than an order they receive. |
| “Why are you so upset over nothing?” | “Something's too much right now. I'm here.” | Does not require them to justify a state they cannot yet describe. |
| “Clean this mess up immediately.” | “I'm doing the pillows. The box is for the Lego.” | Joins the task instead of assigning it, and names where things go. |
| “Look at me when I'm talking to you!” | “You don't have to look at me. I know you're listening.” | Removes a second job. Many people listen better without eye contact, not worse. |
| “You need to calm down.” | “I'm going to sit here for a bit.” | Calm is borrowed from a regulated person nearby; it is not produced on instruction. |
| “Stop fidgeting.” | Say nothing, or offer something quieter to fidget with. | Repetitive movement is usually regulation doing its job. Suppressing it costs attention that was being used for listening (Kapp et al., 2019). |
Side by side, so you can see where profiles differ. Nothing here is a comparison of people; it is a comparison of answers.
Each of these is a model — a current best account, not a settled fact. Where a claim is contested or unproven, it says so. Full citations are in the References tab.
Observed: in ADHD, performance depends unusually heavily on how interesting, urgent or novel a task is, rather than on how important it is. Time estimation and forward planning are affected, and difficulty is with doing what is known rather than with knowing it.
Models: Barkley (1997) put behavioral inhibition at the center, with working memory, self-directed speech, emotional self-regulation and reconstitution downstream of it — this is where the now-common phrase “time blindness” comes from. Volkow and colleagues (2009) found differences in dopamine markers in the reward pathway in adults with ADHD, which is consistent with motivation being the bottleneck.
Not established: that any individual's difficulty can be attributed to a specific dopamine level, or that a scan or blood test could show it. There is no biomarker for ADHD, and group-average differences do not transfer to individuals.
Observed: sensory differences are common enough in autism that they are part of the DSM-5-TR criteria, and they occur in people with no diagnosis at all. Both over- and under-responsiveness turn up, often in the same person across different channels.
Models: several predictive-processing accounts converge on the same idea from different angles — that sensory input is weighted more heavily relative to prior expectation. Pellicano and Burr (2012) framed it as weaker priors; Van de Cruys and colleagues (2014) as inflexibly high precision on prediction error; Lawson, Rees and Friston (2014) as aberrant precision. They make overlapping but not identical predictions, and which one fits best is unresolved.
Not established: a specific thalamic “gating failure” as the cause. That is a plausible implementation, not a finding, and it is often stated on pages like this one as though it were settled.
Practical upshot that does not depend on the model: an environment that is genuinely harder to be in is harder to be in. Changing the environment is the intervention with the best return.
The model: Murray, Lesser and Lawson (2005) proposed that autistic attention tends to be allocated to few interests at a time, very deeply, rather than spread across many. A single account then covers a lot of ground: intense focus, the cost of interruption, difficulty with transitions, and the flat exhaustion of environments that demand constant switching.
Why it is worth knowing: it reframes the same behavior without pathologizing it. Trouble stopping is the same mechanism as being very good at the thing you cannot stop doing.
Status: influential, developed substantially by autistic researchers, and increasingly studied — but a theoretical framework rather than an established mechanism.
Double empathy: Milton (2012) argued that the breakdown between autistic and non-autistic people is a two-way mismatch of expectation, not a one-sided deficit in social ability. Crompton and colleagues (2020) gave it empirical support: information passed along a chain as effectively among autistic people as among non-autistic people, and less well in mixed chains.
Masking: Hull and colleagues (2019) developed and validated the Camouflaging Autistic Traits Questionnaire, which is the measure in this area — a real instrument, which the items on this page are not. Camouflaging is consistently associated with exhaustion and poorer mental health in that literature. Most of it is cross-sectional, so “associated with” is doing real work in that sentence.
Burnout: Raymaker and colleagues (2020) produced the first formal definition of autistic burnout from autistic people's own accounts — chronic exhaustion, loss of skills that were previously reliable, and reduced tolerance to stimulus. That is a qualitative definition, which is the appropriate first step and not yet a measure.
Well supported: emotional dysregulation is common in ADHD, frequently the most impairing part for adults, and under-represented in diagnostic criteria written around childhood behavior.
Has a research base: rejection sensitivity as a personality construct, with a validated questionnaire, from Downey and Feldman (1996).
Does not: “rejection sensitive dysphoria” as a distinct entity. It is a clinical-community term popularised in ADHD writing, absent from the DSM-5-TR, with no validated measure and no real peer-reviewed evidence base. It is a useful word for an experience people recognize instantly. That is different from being a thing that has been shown to exist as described.
Not established: the amygdala-and-prefrontal-cortex account of it that circulates widely. Nobody has imaged this. It is left out here for that reason, not because the experience is doubted.
Kapp and colleagues (2019) asked autistic adults directly. Repetitive movement was described as a useful self-regulatory tool, and the main harm reported came from being stopped from doing it — the suppression, not the movement.
This is the item on this page most likely to be scored as a problem and most likely not to be one. Unless a behavior causes injury or genuinely prevents something the person wants, the default is to leave it alone.
The frameworks, the borrowing, and the limits — stated plainly rather than in a footnote.
The DSM-5-TR lists nine inattentive and nine hyperactive-impulsive symptoms. A diagnosis needs six or more in a domain for children up to 16, or five or more from age 17 — plus several symptoms present before age 12, impairment in two or more settings, clear interference with functioning, and the judgement that nothing else explains it better.
The items here are paraphrases, deliberately. The DSM-5-TR criteria are copyrighted text belonging to the American Psychiatric Association, and reproducing them verbatim in a web page is not something this site will do. Paraphrase also matters clinically: the official wording is written for a clinician who is trained to interpret it, and a layperson reading it cold reads it differently.
What this page counts: how many symptoms you rated “often” or “very often”, in each domain, against the threshold for the age band. That is the symptom count and nothing more.
What it cannot do — all of it required for an actual diagnosis:
- Criterion E: establish that nothing else explains the picture better. This is most of the work, and it needs a clinician.
- A developmental history, and where possible a school report or a parent's account from childhood.
- Direct observation, and collateral information from someone other than the person answering.
- Any judgement about whether reported difficulty amounts to clinically significant impairment.
Meeting the count here means your answers have the shape the criteria describe. That is a good reason to book an appointment. It is not a result.
Winnie Dunn's model (1997) crosses two axes: neurological threshold (how much input it takes to register) against behavioral response (whether the person acts to change their input or lets it happen). That produces four quadrants:
- Low registration — high threshold, passive. Misses things: names not heard, bumps not noticed.
- Sensation seeking — high threshold, active. Goes and gets input: movement, noise, texture, strong flavours.
- Sensory sensitivity — low threshold, passive. Notices everything and is worn down by it, without necessarily escaping it.
- Sensation avoiding — low threshold, active. Actively limits input: leaves the room, cuts the tags out, dims the lights.
Most people sit somewhere on all four. A high score in two apparently opposite quadrants is normal, not a contradiction — thresholds differ by channel, so seeking movement while avoiding noise is an ordinary combination.
This is not the Sensory Profile 2. That is Dunn's own published, normed, proprietary instrument, distributed by Pearson, with age-banded norms and a scoring manual. The items here were written for this page against the published model, carry no norms, and produce no comparable score. Where the quadrants matter — an occupational therapy referral, a school accommodation plan — the real instrument is what gets used, administered by someone qualified to interpret it.
The original version of this page offered an “ADOS-2 Observational Coding Adaptation.” That framing has been removed, and this is the most substantive change in this rewrite.
The ADOS-2 (Lord et al., 2012) is a semi-structured assessment in which a trained clinician runs standardised activities designed to create social opportunities, and codes what the person does in response. The codes depend on the press: what is being measured is behavior under specific, controlled conditions, scored by someone trained to research reliability on that instrument. It is also proprietary, and restricted to qualified users for good reasons.
A questionnaire cannot reproduce any of that. A self-report cannot observe the person answering it, and an observer report is a memory rather than an observation. Calling such a thing an ADOS-2 adaptation implies a correspondence that does not exist, and someone could reasonably take a result from it as meaning something about an autism assessment. It does not.
What is here instead: fourteen plain-language probes about social communication, reciprocity and repetitive behavior — the behavior domains the diagnostic criteria describe, which are public. They produce a description you can take to an appointment. They produce no score, no threshold and no classification, because none of those would mean anything.
If an autism assessment is what you are after, validated screening questionnaires exist and are free or cheap: the AQ and AQ-10 (Baron-Cohen et al., 2001 and after), the RAADS-R for adults, the SCQ for children. Those have published psychometrics. Ask a clinician which is appropriate; each is a screener too, not a diagnosis.
- No validation. No reliability study, no factor analysis, no comparison against any established measure. The five dimensions are a sensible organizing scheme, not empirically derived factors.
- No norms. “62% of maximum” is not high or low relative to anyone, and no amount of care changes that — there is no comparison group and this page will never have one. What is done about it: the report leads with a within-person ranking (your five areas against each other), which is interpretable without any reference sample, and the percentage sits below it with an explicit denominator.
- Arbitrary thresholds. Every band label on this page is a judgement call made while writing it, and is labeled as such where it appears.
- Acquiescence bias. Nearly every item is worded so that agreeing indicates more difficulty, so someone inclined to agree scores higher throughout. What is done about it: five Tier 2 items are worded the opposite way round, one per dimension, and the report gives an agreement count. They are deliberately kept out of the dimension scores — folding them in would change what every other number on the page means. Five items is a weak check rather than a validity scale, and it is reported as a plain count instead of being dressed up as one.
- No validity scales. Nothing detects inconsistent, careless or deliberately skewed responding.
- Frequency is not impairment. The items ask how often; the DSM asks how often and how much harm. A single impact item per tier is a gesture at this, not a solution.
- Self and observer reports diverge, and this tool cannot tell you which is closer to the truth. Often neither is.
- Overlap. Trauma, anxiety, depression, sleep disorders and several medical conditions produce these same answers, and this tool cannot separate them — that is a clinician's job and it stays one. What is done about it: a twelve-item rule-out screener asks about sleep and apnea, hearing, vision, iron, thyroid, mood, trauma, medication and plain overload, then turns whatever it flags into a list naming the actual test to ask for — ferritin and a full blood count, a thyroid panel, audiometry, a full eye exam, a sleep study. It diagnoses nothing. It exists to stop a fixable cause going unexamined because attention was the thing everybody looked at first.
- Cultural and linguistic narrowness. Written in English, in one cultural frame. What reads as poor eye contact or excessive directness varies enormously by culture.
- Children's items are read by adults. The child self-report wording assumes a reading level not every ten-year-old has.
None of that makes the exercise pointless. Writing down what happens, how often, and in which areas is genuinely useful preparation. It is only worthless if presented as measurement, which is why it is not.
Every source named anywhere on this page. Author, year, title and journal only — volume and page numbers are deliberately omitted rather than approximated, and will be added once each entry has been checked against the primary source for the main bibliography.
Attention and executive function
- American Psychiatric Association (2022). Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, Fifth Edition, Text Revision (DSM-5-TR).
- Barkley, R. A. (1997). Behavioral inhibition, sustained attention, and executive functions: constructing a unifying theory of ADHD. Psychological Bulletin.
- Volkow, N. D., Wang, G.-J., Kollins, S. H., et al. (2009). Evaluating dopamine reward pathway in ADHD: clinical implications. JAMA.
- Becker, S. P., Willcutt, E. G., Leopold, D. R., et al. (2023). Report of a work group on sluggish cognitive tempo: key research directions and a consensus change in terminology to cognitive disengagement syndrome. Journal of the American Academy of Child & Adolescent Psychiatry.
- Kessler, R. C., Adler, L., Ames, M., et al. (2005). The World Health Organization Adult ADHD Self-Report Scale (ASRS): a short screening scale for use in the general population. Psychological Medicine.
Autism, attention style and communication
- Murray, D., Lesser, M., & Lawson, W. (2005). Attention, monotropism and the diagnostic criteria for autism. Autism.
- Milton, D. E. M. (2012). On the ontological status of autism: the ‘double empathy problem’. Disability & Society.
- Crompton, C. J., Ropar, D., Evans-Williams, C. V., Flynn, E. G., & Fletcher-Watson, S. (2020). Autistic peer-to-peer information transfer is highly effective. Autism.
- Hull, L., Mandy, W., Lai, M.-C., et al. (2019). Development and validation of the Camouflaging Autistic Traits Questionnaire (CAT-Q). Journal of Autism and Developmental Disorders.
- Kapp, S. K., Steward, R., Crane, L., et al. (2019). ‘People should be allowed to do what they like’: autistic adults’ views and experiences of stimming. Autism.
- Raymaker, D. M., Teo, A. R., Steckler, N. A., et al. (2020). “Having all of your internal resources exhausted beyond measure and being left with no clean-up crew”: defining autistic burnout. Autism in Adulthood.
- Baron-Cohen, S., Wheelwright, S., Skinner, R., Martin, J., & Clubley, E. (2001). The Autism-Spectrum Quotient (AQ). Journal of Autism and Developmental Disorders.
- Lord, C., Rutter, M., DiLavore, P. C., Risi, S., Gotham, K., & Bishop, S. L. (2012). Autism Diagnostic Observation Schedule, Second Edition (ADOS-2). Western Psychological Services. Named to be clear that it is not used here.
Sensory processing
- Dunn, W. (1997). The impact of sensory processing abilities on the daily lives of young children and their families: a conceptual model. Infants & Young Children.
- Dunn, W. (2014). Sensory Profile 2. Pearson. Named to be clear that it is not used here.
- Swedo, S. E., Baguley, D. M., Denys, D., et al. (2022). Consensus definition of misophonia: a Delphi study. Frontiers in Neuroscience.
- Pellicano, E., & Burr, D. (2012). When the world becomes ‘too real’: a Bayesian explanation of autistic perception. Trends in Cognitive Sciences.
- Van de Cruys, S., Evers, K., Van der Hallen, R., et al. (2014). Precise minds in uncertain worlds: predictive coding in autism. Psychological Review.
- Lawson, R. P., Rees, G., & Friston, K. J. (2014). An aberrant precision account of autism. Frontiers in Human Neuroscience.
Emotion, demand avoidance and risk
- Downey, G., & Feldman, S. I. (1996). Implications of rejection sensitivity for intimate relationships. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology.
- Newson, E., Le Maréchal, K., & David, C. (2003). Pathological demand avoidance syndrome: a necessary distinction within the pervasive developmental disorders. Archives of Disease in Childhood.
- Green, J., Absoud, M., Grahame, V., et al. (2018). Pathological demand avoidance: symptoms but not a syndrome. The Lancet Child & Adolescent Health.
- Cassidy, S., Bradley, P., Robinson, J., et al. (2014). Suicidal ideation and suicide plans or attempts in adults with Asperger’s syndrome attending a specialist diagnostic clinic. The Lancet Psychiatry.
Sleep and sensory aids
- Gringras, P., Green, D., Wright, B., et al. (2014). Weighted blankets and sleep in autistic children — a randomized controlled trial. Pediatrics. Found no objective sleep benefit.
- Ekholm, B., Spulber, S., & Adler, M. (2020). A randomized controlled study of weighted chain blankets for insomnia in psychiatric disorders. Journal of Clinical Sleep Medicine. Found benefit in adults.
Not cited, because it could not be
Three claims in the original version of this page are absent from this one because no primary source supports them as stated: that expressive language areas are measurably “offline” during a meltdown; that rejection sensitive dysphoria is produced by a described amygdala–vmPFC timing difference; and that thalamic gating failure is the established cause of sensory overload. Each is plausible-sounding, widely repeated, and unverified. Where the underlying experience is real, it is described here without the mechanism attached.